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Reply to "Making it work when the wife is the one with the "big job" - s/o today's NY Times article"
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[quote=Anonymous]I was in your position. Ultimately we couldn't make it work. It wasn't even that my DH wasn't willing to do all the mental and mommy stuff. He just wasn't as good/efficient at it as I was and our kids started suffering as a result. We recognized it and switched things. He leaned in more. I cut back on things. Sure, maybe our HHI is about 150K less than it could be but we still live well enough even by DCUM standards.[/quote]
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