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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh. On the one hand, your DH sounds awful; on the other hand, there are so many people in my family who I could imagine behaving this way who are not awful people. Which is just to say, I'm sure your DH isn't actually awful, but what is he thinking? I assume John didn't do anything actually (arguably) unforgivable/wasn't himself the cause of the crisis (e.g., kiddie porn, child molesting) and, instead, they just took different people's sides in a crisis not caused by them (e.g., divorce, dispute over money)? If so, you need to impress upon DH that it doesn't matter AT ALL whose fault it was and that John is now likely not in a position where he can/should focus on this and the person he should want to be would step up. He doesn't have to say it's his fault, he just has to make it clear that he's there, he cares and he loves John. This really shouldn't be hard.[/quote]
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