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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]     I can't answer this question, but would offer a drop of unsolicited advice to all the parents with kids waitlisted at these schools who were expecting their child would be accepted at least at one of them.

DS was in that waitlist situation a few year ago.  He ended up at St. Andrew's and it worked out wonderfully.  I know it's really, really hard as a parent to not feel anxious for your child when they are waitlisted (or rejected) by what you see as the first choice schools.   And it's really, really hard not to somehow think that the trajectory of your child's life will be so much better if he/she attends a "top" named private high school school.  Fortunatley, there are many great high schools in this area -- public and private -- in addition to the three mentioned in OPs post.  Good luck to OP's child in getting off the wait lists if that is what he/she really wants, but keep an open mind and an open heart.  The top colleges have plenty of kids from high schools you never heard of from around the country and the world. [/quote]

GDS/Maret/Sidwell = NW DC
St Andrew = Mid Suburbia

Not everyone can make that commute, but thanks anyhow.[/quote]

To PP 1:07, that was an incredibly compassionate, supportive post. As a family with similar trajectory, I could not agree with you more. Our first child did not get into top choices when transitioning from a terminal 8 school. It was a challenging time and we couldn’t help cling to the hope of coming off waitlists, which never happened. They chose a previously unknown, less prestigious, less convenient school that we included as a backup. They thieved beyond our wildest expectations, and possibly beyond where they would have at a big 3 (we’ll never know), and our younger children, having seen the oldest’s experience, chose the “backup” as their first choice. In fact our youngest chose it over a big three, where they were accepted. I will admit it took some adjustment time for us as parents to accept the different trajectory. Our oldest is now at a top university and our children are confident and thriving, we couldn’t be happier for our children and family.

To the follow up poster (and OP, if they are not in fact the same), [b]you’ll need to be willing to look beyond your comfort zone. Suburban schools are very much a reality and transportation isn’t an obstacle.[/b] Many district kids go to school at significant distances from home just as suburban kids come into town. There are excellent bus options, both school sponsored and public. Be prepared, waitlists are not really waitlists in the elites - they are polite rejections, given either b/c you have a child who really is capable or you are a family of influence who’s child still didn’t cut it. If you didn’t get off a WL the week after deposits it is virtually guaranteed you never will - buck up and move on...[/quote]

Not everyone has cars or caretakers to transport their kids. Have you tried taking the metro and the various buses necessary to get from, say Petworth to St Andrew's? If you had, you would not have typed this.[/quote]

Given that St. Andrews has a bus that picks up from various subway stops, I would say it would be possible.[/quote]

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