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[quote=Anonymous]I messed up our first date, I think. We met through an adult class and he showed strong interest in me since the very beginning, perhaps even infatuation. After the class was finished, he started texting and has told me many times that he likes me over text but I didn't expressly said I like him too. On our first date, we met outdoors (so no sleeping together even though he clearly wanted to) but passionately kissed many times which was great (he was from a Latin country so he's a lot more passionate than Americans/Western Europeans). But the not so great points from me were:

- He held my hands, interlocked, and I sort of pulled away after a while and gave him a more casual hand holding because I was scared this bf/gf vibe is coming too soon

- He suggested we video call sometime and again I declined. Same reason as above

- He asked me a couple of times if I wanted him and I was ambiguous. Even though I want him. Not very wise, I know

- I confronted him on a suspected behavior (something in the line of stalking me), which might have embarrassed him. I really shouldn't have asked but at that point, I was concerned he was a stalker.

Will guys be "offended"/hurt and thus pull away because of the above? We ended the date amicably and he asked when he gets to see me next time (I answered next week). I texted him two days later to say I think about him a lot but his response was swift but cold. Instead of saying he thinks about me, he said he is also thinking about "it". He gave me a kiss and that's the last communication.

Do you think he has pulled away because of my behavior? Because he didn't get to sleep with me on the first date? I thought about calling him to show that I care but if it's more likely he has found another target, I'll save myself from being a fool...[/quote]

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