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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe it’s you? Your issue with alone time. If I talk about a weekend away, my dh would assume he was involved too unless otherwise noted. [/quote]f he hasn't been like this previously and is like this now, it's not OP. Shut up and go away.

OP, you should talk to him about it. Perhaps he is worried and this is the result of that worry. Best person to ask and fix this is him, though. [/quote]

Shut up and go away? So thoughtful.

I wasn’t trying to be mean. It IS possible that her dh hasn’t changed, but SHE has. Her reaction to him has changed. You know how when a person is tired or stressed out they might react entirely differently to a typical situation. If op has a crazy commute and adult children living at home, maybe she’s stretched thin. But maybe her husband isn’t clingy and he doesn’t need to be “fixed”—maybe op needs a change and needs to speak up. Nothing wrong with acknowledging our own issues. I’m not saying this is 100% what is going on, how would I know? But it’s always good to think about all angles.[/quote]

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