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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a four month old I love more than life itself, more than I ever thought possible. DH, not so much. Obviously it's causing a lot of conflict and I'm not sure I even want to be married to him anymore. If you had a similar road did it eventually get better? I'm worried he'll just never enjoy fatherhood and this will all be on me. [/quote] My friends are going through similar situation, apparently turned that the guy has Asperger's and that is side effect. It is not that he does not love the kid but it is about the need to show affection and neurowiring so you might look into it. Also, my suggestion is that you need to create tons of opportunities to create a bond between dad and a new born, even lots of women do not feel love immediately to a child. It is a process to some and instant to others. Have your husband hold the baby as much a humanly possible. Have him to feed the baby etc. [/quote]
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