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Reply to "Does sharing your emotions with your spouse help anything?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, my spouse tells me how they're feeling all the time. I'm their spouse. [b]I'm the witness to their life. [/b] If they're not telling me, then they're carrying that burden themselves. Who wants to live like that? [/quote] This is such a big deal. I see my husband this way--he is the witness to my life (and vice versa), and I wanted, and have, a compassionate witness. If your spouse doesn't know the full complexity of your life--what you feel, what you are struggling with, what you are rejoicing about--does anyone? Being seen is important.[/quote] He just wants to relax after work, have dinner, watch TV, and hopefully have sex later. He doesn't really want to know the "full complexity of your life" -- although he will pretend to so that you'll be in the mood for that sex later. [/quote]
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