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[quote=Skyeblue]I'm a single mom of a 7 yo who has dated very little. When DD was 5 I dipped my toe in the water and have proceeded cautiously. Six mos ago I met someone special and things have gone well; a month ago I let him and DD interact in a group setting (had a dinner party with other guys/couples), and he's been out to dinner with DD and I once. He is divorced with 2 teen daughters who live in New England with their mom; he is here in DC on assignment with a fed agency, ostensibly permanently.

We spoke last night and he is interviewing for a job in Worcester, Mass. We're going to talk in more detail this weekend, but he gently probed in the conversation how I felt about relocating there.

I don't plan to, for a few big reasons, most notably we're just not at that stage in the relationship. And, I'd never move DD and I for a guy unless he was the one and marriage was imminent, which is not where we are at. Finally, because the job puts him closer to his teen DD's, I'd never discourage him from taking it.

We're going to talk in more detail this weekend, but I'm not sure how much more I have to add to the conversation. He'll either take this job or not, of his own accord, and for his own reasons. I feel really sad at the thought of losing him. This is just the way it goes sometimes, right?[/quote]

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