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Reply to "Wife is unhappy/depressed....but doesn’t seem to want to do anything about it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she’s depressed, it’s fairly easy to understand why she’s not motivated. It saps you. That said, she is responsible for doing something to change her situation if she’s unhappy. It seems like the fact that you’re planning to TTC gives you an opening here. The next time trying for a baby comes up, say something like “you know, I think I want to hold off. You’re not happy with your job/friends/family and I think it would be better if you felt more supported/happier/content before going into such a major, disruptive life change. What changes need to be made so that will be the case?” [/quote] And all she will do is continue to blame everyone else. She will also lash out at op for taking away her one chance at happiness. Op needs to be very direct and call a spade a spade. [/quote]
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