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Reply to "We've been dating for less than a year. Now he has a serious, life-altering illness."
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[quote=Anonymous]As somebody who has a chronic illness, i don’t think it’s shitty to out. Once you’re married you’ve committed and you do your best to make it work. But you’re not married! my illness is a drag in our marriage. My husband is a really good sport about it and very committed to our marriage but it’s still really hard on both of us. I don’t just feel like a burden, I am one. It would have been one thing if we both knew what we were getting into but I wasn’t diagnosed until after we got married. What he loved about me was my independence and zest for life and poof, that’s gone. If I could go back and marry somebody who loved me most for other qualities, I would. Maybe. I totally love my husband. Another problem with tohr situation is that women are always expected to be caregivers. Don’t put this expectation on yourself. You are under zero obligation to your boyfriend and don’t take it on unless you really, really want to. [/quote]
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