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Reply to "DUMBEST argument, but bigger issues"
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[quote=Anonymous]Wait until you both have time to sit and relax-at home, or even better out somewhere: "when we had that argument about the milk, I felt like it was deeper than the milk. Can you tell me how you were feeling?" Knowing nothing but what you posted, I'm thinking he felt some combo of "I try but it's never enough/she always finds fault/I make a mistake and she mocks me." Once someone feels picked on it's easy to hear digs in every conversation-and that's not necessarily your fault if you are just asking about the milk, but even if it's not your fault it is an issue that you both need to address together. You may just need a reset, where you both focus on using positive, appreciative language with each other. Or maybe, he is struggling with something completely different. Either way, you need to talk to each other.[/quote]
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