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[quote=Anonymous]Absolutely not. Sharing a BEDROOM with your children? Withbyour FIL having hallucinations and all sorts of other issues, no way. It is not safe for your kids. If it was a hospice situation where he only had a few days/weeks, you could have the kids bunk in with you for a short time. But you both work full time andnit sounds like you have a very small house. My father has Parkinson’s and I could never care for him while also caring for my young children. It wouldn’t be fair to him. Your father needs a nursing home, preferably near you, where you (and occasionally the kids) can visit him. Does your step mother in law have kids of her own who could help pay for an apartment? Your FIL needs round the clock care, but if he is in a nursing home, your SMIL could get a part time job.[/quote]
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