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[quote=Anonymous]These are normal feelings to have but are manifestations of your insecurity. You’ve been with him for 8 months. You can’t have the history and intimacy he had with his deceased wife, and perhaps you are feeling pressure from his friends/family that they wish you were her. You can only be unapologetically you, and see where this goes. If you develop a lasting intimate relationship with him, then he will understand you are a different person - you and not her - and you will understand what she meant to him and what her memory means to him now. It sounds like the people in his life are still feeling relatively fresh about the loss, but that won’t be forever. They will get to know you and eventually stop thinking of you in comparison to her. You can lead the way by pushing yourself out of this “comparison” mentality.[/quote]
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