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Reply to "Feel like I can't compare to his ex"
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[quote=Anonymous]It’s understandable that you feel this way, but if you’re unable to overcome it and move forward then this isn’t the relationship for you. She’ll always be a part of him, and he’ll always love her and that something that will exist side-by-side with your relationship. That’s why widows and widowers often find each other and marry — they “get it” in away divorcees and single people might not. That being said, men who had happy marriages are more likely to want to get married again, and many do, and go on to be happy. There’s no reason to think this won’t work out, but it sounds like the obstacle is you, and your insecurity. You can’t put that on him or ask him to talk about her less, put away her pictures/FB, etc...you have to work it out on your own or make the decision that you can’t be with a widower. How long were they married? Did they have children? That makes a difference, too.[/quote]
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