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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this your biggest problem? How to talk to her. What is her living situation. I'm hoping you'll say she's not living alone. She needs to be kept safe, above all else. Far above the need, hers or yours, for engaging conversation.[/quote] Reality check time! The aging, complaining, depressed mother with memory issues is not going to be receptive to discussing any of those issues, any physical issues, any monetary issues, or any housing issues. Mom’s an adult, she supposedly had an opportunity to plan for her future needs, and you aren’t going to change anything short of getting her guardianship. I say focus on being patient and kind, but don’t delude yourself into thinking you can change anything. [/quote]
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