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[quote=Anonymous]I don't really know what to say about this because I don't necessarily consider myself happily married.  Maybe more like "okay" married and we're probably not getting a divorce.  Been married 12 years - 3 kids.

I dated a LOT of people between the ages of 15 and 25, before getting married at 25.  I dated my HS BF for 2 years.  Two college BFs for one year each.  And a number of people for a few or a couple of months.

I will say that around the time I met my husband, I had recently read He's Just Not that into you - and I actually really internalized that book.  I did feel like I was getting strung along by at least one person after reading that - and cut it off.  And I was right that I was being strung along.

I know that I did want to get married and have kids and I suppose I made some decisions with that in mind.  I know this is kind of a dumb thing to think but after college graduation I seriously thought that I might like to go abroad for a few years - but I really thought, well, if I want to get married and start a family - I want to live near-ish to my family and not in another country so I really don't think being out of the country will set me up for that necessarily.  Idk if that's weird but that's my thought process.  Who knows what would have happened if I went abroad!  And I'm sure some people have done it and they think it's the best decision they ever made.

I was kind of a serial dater and I used to consider myself an "equal opportunity" dater.  I didn't have a type per se.  I was open to anyone I liked for whatever reason.  [/quote]

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