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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, I'd work at keeping expectations reasonable about what you will get out of this vacation.

Your DH should back you up when you don't want to go out to breakfast and go solo with the kids.  But do try to attend one day with the group, I'd aim for day 2.  You should definitely just tell DH you will need a BREAK and prep him for this ahead of time, and then do it.  Go to your room and take an extremely long shower, lie down and nap, read a book, listen to a podcast, whatever.

But you will not get an entire day alone.  And it is not reasonable to ditch the grandparents to have an outing/dinner with only our nuclear family.  If grandparents bow out of something, fine.  But you can not reasonably expect this.

I also would not plan to ever get to use the hot tub alone.

Focus on the fact that they are wonderful grandparents.  My inlaws drive me nuts too, but are also very good grandparents, and I survive by reading a good novel ALONE while they get some "no mom around" time with my kids.  It's a win win.  [/quote]
I know my MIL will expect/enjoy “alone time” without parents there, occasionally. I’m just hoping it’s more often than not! [/quote]

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