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[quote=Anonymous]You need to be clear upfront about who is paying for what. Don't assume that "take you on a trip" means paying for everything. It might, but it clearly does not mean that for them, and you guys are morons if you keep making that assumption. And no, your husband really needs to deal with his parents, but the two of you need to sit down and figure out whether you want to accept these invitations--on the assumption that you will be paying for everything. If he wants to go, then you need to figure out ways to control your own costs--booking your own hotel, etc., and communicate that clearly to his parents. If he doesn't, then he needs to decline that invitation. It can be a case-by-case decision, but there is no reason you should be getting burned because you expected them to pay for everything. [/quote]
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