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[quote=Anonymous]I’d say first you need to change how you view finances. From now on ALL the money goes into a joint account that both of you can monitor. Only leave enough in there to cover the household expenses. Transfer the rest to savings. DH has to devote his “fun” money towards paying his debts. If he is this irresponsible, you can’t afford to have separate accounts. He could blow up HALF your family’s household income!!! Seriously, how are you going to pay the mortgage if he spends his whole paycheck on something ridiculous? You also need to check his credit report every single month, as if he was a middle schooler figuring out checking accounts for the first time. It sucks. [/quote]
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