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Reply to "s/p engagement rings: does this scenario make sense?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Um, you do you? There are no hard and fast rules. Do whatever you want. But I must say it sounds like you are overthinking this. While some women want to select their ring, others prefer to be surprised by their future husband. You sound like you want to take charge, and that's okay. Pick a diamond or something else. Since you are older and not traditional, no need to spring for a diamond. The only thing I find troubling in your post is that you don't seem interested in having one family. You seem like you want to cohabitate but will think of you and your daughter as one family, and your husband and his kids another family. I think that's a dangerous attitude. Happily married people merge bank accounts and lives. [/quote]
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