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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if she is mentally manipulating your children there really isn't anything you can do about it to stop her. The one real benefit you have going in your favor is the 50/50 split. Mothers are very prone to manipulation of children post divorce. This is even true when the father thinks things are stable and have been stable for years. Moms frequently have some baseline manipulative interaction that can kick into high gear upon the ex husband doing something the ex wife doesn't like (i.e., getting a new gf or getting remarried or not paying for something).

Women that do this typically have borderline personality disorder and they eventually cause personality disorders in the children as well. It is 100% child abuse but not often recognized because they see it as the mom being protective and wanting her time, etc.

Watch for changes in your children's behavior. If she is doing this you need to intervene quickly. Studies show that it only takes about 6 months of a mother doing this stuff before the child and father begin to have real problems that often can not be fixed. The best thing I know to do is for you to research parental alienation. Search Dr. Craig Childress for the best information I know of. If you see any of the signs in his checklist then you must find a child psychologist immediately and have the children assessed for DSM-5 309.4, V61.20, V61.29, V995.51 and if this is found then you must use that a grounds for a modification and get 100% custody of your kids.[/quote]

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