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[quote=Anonymous]Sure. I think the post about the DH who ran up $20k in credit card debt trying to keep up with his buddies is a great example. Also anything dangerous or illegal, eg, the buddies do drugs or DUI. Usually, though, I think it's not necessary to actually tell your spouse to stop. My spouse had a college-era friend who had become a truly terrible adult human. I refused to hang out with this person or expose our kids to him, and I told DH as neutrally as I could that I didn't understand how decent people could enjoy being around this person. Then I let it drop. I honestly had no plans to bring it up again. DH got around to cutting him off, on his own, a month or so later.[/quote]
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