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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly, this is immaturity. Any time someone is being passive-aggressive it's a sign of immaturity. When DH and I first moved in together I didn't know how to argue. I didn't know how to ask for what I wanted from him. I didn't know how to say "You hurt my feelings, and even though I know it was unintentional I'm irrationally angry at you." What helped was a few months of couples counseling. The therapist helped me see that it's okay to be REALLY honest sometimes. You can skip saying the mean things about someone else, but say the honest things about yourself. "I feel insecure when you wink at the receptionists and hostesses. Would you please not do that in front of me?" The therapy taught us how to communicate in productive ways. It taught me how to process my anger, how to let go of anger, how when DH and I disagree I can think "While I disagree with DH, this is clearly MUCH more important to him than it is to me, so I'll give him this one." [/quote]
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