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[quote=Anonymous]I guess it’s OK if you have low or no expectations. Or if you’re willing to walk away if they say no.

My DH has a female friend he started talking a lot about maybe 8 months ago or so. Ok, whatever, he’s always had a lot of female friends, it’s kind of annoying, but he’s not out spending time with them or anything — he’s at home with me and our two small children.

But then he started going to happy hours (don’t know with whom). And he was clearly texting with her outside of work hours. It became apparent that they were having an intense relationship of some type. I told him this is causing problems, they clearly are getting too close, he’s crossing a line, knock it the F off. We were having other serious problems at the same time too (imagine that). He didn’t agree to it, but he stopped talking to me about her for the most part. He changed jobs. I couldn’t tell how much he was communicating with her but it either was less or just less obvious.

I don’t know what happened, but recently they’ve seemingly fizzled out. Things are better with us. I don’t have to hunt down and cut a B at the moment. :lol: Knowing how stubborn he is, I didn’t expect him to cut her off, but I did expect him to cut the crap or face mounting problems at home. We’ll see what happens. At this point I have no proof of anything and it’s not worth leaving over. But that could always change if things go sideways.[/quote]

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