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[quote=Anonymous]Best response !!! Do not second guess your gut! My abusive ex used to joke in plain sight like this ALL the time. A way of rationalizing his own urges and attempting to demean your power. He can sense you are a strong woman and sought to humiliate this power. I hope your friend survives this. Please print this thread and give it to her. Dear friend of poster, I am a survivor of an abuser. A narcissist cannot change. Get out before he kills you or your kids. And your children can die a slow death in their hope, happiness, and spirit. He can mimic empathy, but feels nothing. He can mimic intimacy and kindness, but it’s all a okay on your emotions, a grooming strategy. He can smell your willingness to put up with his need to humiliate just to get a taste of the sweet man he first introduced you to. It’s never upfront, abuse sneaks in like a rat. When you got home, he called the poster a bunch of names didn’t he? He ranted in on her didn’t he? He called her husband names didn’t he? He calls himself an introvert doesn’t he? Leave. It doesn’t get better. [/quote]
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