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[quote=Anonymous]Reading the other thread is so hard. I got really really unlucky in the in law department. Mine are so nutty, racist, xenophobic,drunk and not...nice people.

I try my best to stay focused on the important thing, my husband and our marriage but its so painful that I'm related to them. MIL is threatened I'm taking her son away and is racist because I am not white. SIL hates me and has never tried to talk to me or get to know me. At our wedding I made her a bridesmaid...she never joined me in the bridal suite to hang or get dressed with us!! She only stood by me and then showed up to take pictures. Like...I have no words.

So as you can imagine we aren't close but its due to them. We see them once or thrice a year. And I'm sad my future kids will be raised in a dysfunctional family like this.

It would be easy to swallow if it wasn't so rubbed in my face that people DO get wonderful in laws! My younger sister is SO SO lucky, her in laws are just...the most wonderful, kind, inclusive, happy lovely people. They have accepted her as a daughter and are so thankful to her for being in BIL's life.  I get filled with waves of intense sadness and jealousy when I hear how kind her MIL is for her. She is always texting with her, shopping together, getting advice from her. Her ILs love her and joke about how they'd rather trade her in for their son as she is so great.

I'm sick with jealousy and bitterness. Why didn't I deserve kinder in laws too? What is wrong with me? [/quote]

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