Reply to If there was never a "spark," can a successful, long-term relationship still be possible?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "If there was never a "spark," can a successful, long-term relationship still be possible?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, I think you can have a successful marriage, but it is going to be difficult. I'm like you. My now husband pursued me. He did everything to please me. It was easy to be going out and being together. Sex was good enough. But no spark. Got married, had kids, good life. And when I think of it as MY LIFE IS FINE. It is fine. Totally nothng wrong with it.

Fast forward .... and I regret not waiting for somebody with whom I have a spark. I do. I love my kids. I think I even love my husband. But I do feel as though I could live without him fairly easily. He makes my life easier (he can reach those hard to reach items in the kitchen. he cleans out the drains. he's a good coparent most of the time, etc. But couldn't a butler & a handyman do all those things?).

You know it isn't the right fit. It isn't the right fit. You should be crazy about her and eager to please her. And vice versa. It is so hard to feel you don't really care about your spouse. Because you'll get there. And you may fall for somebody else. But it will be much much messier after a few years of marriage and a couple of kids.

Do yourself a favor and find somebody you respect and are attracted to and love wholeheartedly.[/quote]

Omg, woman - you are SO STUPID. Just you wait until you do actually lose this wonderful man - you will feel horrendous pain because you did not appreciate him or love him enough. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics