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Reply to "If there was never a "spark," can a successful, long-term relationship still be possible?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you need a spark, but you do need something magnetic to keep the relationship together. You also need equality in commitment and attachment, which it doesn't sound like you have. At the same time, I think it's really healthy that you recognize the good qualities in the relationship and gave it a chance. Because at the end of the day, what's worse than NO spark is lots of spark, followed by incompatible values and a horrible long-term relationship. I guess in the end it's a bit of a paradox -- you do need spark or some sort to establish a relationship, but spark alone is not sufficient. I'm sorry to say I think you've given this one enough time. By a year in, you should know if you love her, not just "like" her. [/quote]
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