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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry. You do have two kids. Did his mommy spoil him rotten, and do everything for him?[/quote]

OP here... in my opinion, yes. He had a SAHM and didn’t learn to do laundry till college. He barely knows how to cook. When we are at his parents house and he clears the table and does dishes, his mom practically throws a parade! I came from a home of two full time working parents. Where the cook doesn’t clean, I did my own laundry at 12, had daily chores, etc.

We’ve been together 15+ years and lived together 13 of those. It’s gotten so much worse since we had a child. It takes me breaking down, crying, every few months before he gets it ... for awhile and then it begins again.

Not that it matters, but income wise we are almost 50/50 so it should be the same at home!

I just LOST IT when he messed up my new car. We live so conservatively and I’ve waited forever to have a nice, new (to me) car.

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I'm with you. Working women are usually getting a bad deal. This is why dual income parents do tons of outsourcing. Mom doesn't want double duty.

But why do we marry these lazy-as* mama's boy "men"?

Fiqure out "natural consequences" for him.[/quote]

OP again... I get what you are saying but it always still ends up being my problem. Like with my car... he says he will take care of getting it fixed. But it will likely leave me without a car on a work day which I need for client meetings and will also cost money that yes, we have but no, I don’t want to spend on this.[/quote]

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