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[quote=Anonymous]About a month ago, we got a new car. Today my husband was driving it and after we pulled into the garage and parked, he got out , opened the hatchback and started to take in some things bought. As he went into the house, he pushed the garage door button while the hatchback was still open. Meanwhile, I’m taking our DD out of her car seat but noticed what he’s done and yell at him to shut the garage door off. It is very easy to see that the garage door will damage our hatchback... he yells back at me “why are you yelling, you’re so dramatic” I rush over and try to close the hatchback as fast as I can, but it’s not fast enough and the garage door scratched the shit out of our new car. I was soooooooooooo pissed, like crying pissed. We have a decent HHI but live very very conservatively. This is the first big new thing I’ve gotten in probably a decade.

I lost my shit on him. It’s more than just this, I understand it was not on purpose. But he never pay attention to anything beyond himself.We have a 3 year old, shes a bit of a handful like most kids her age. I just lost it, because I feel like I live with a teenage boy and a 3 year old. The argument just snowballed... he is better than many husbands in the fact that he “helps” (I loathe that term) but every thing he does is so half assed that it actually make things worse. He does the dishes but puts  bowls full of spaghetti sauce in the dishwasher without rinsing. He wipes the counters down, but leaves a huge wad of dirty paper towels out. He does his laundry but it never leaves the laundry room. We went to lunch, all 3 of us, and I’m making sure my daughter has all of her belongings, but noticed my husband left his iPhone and is halfway out the door... then because of keeping track of his shit, I forgot the to go drink I ordered. Seems minor, but it’s so frequent, I feel like I have 2 kids. I hate being a nag, so I try to not be but then something like this happens... I feel like I have 2 kids, instead of 1.

I’m very aware it sounds trivial but I am about to lose my mind! [/quote]

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