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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had a few "state of the union" talks when we first got married. Kind of like "hey, I want to bring this up now because I think if it keeps going I'll silently resent you until our marriage blows up so is there any way you could change this one thing I know you had NO idea has been bothering me" type of talks. But we go out just the two of us once a week and he's even better at communicating than I am.[/quote] OP here. This is what I had hoped for and am still hoping for. But I feel there is some resentment. Perhaps when we were dating I should have really considered the communication issue. I’ve found that he leaves a lot of decisions in my court but I often wonder if it’s just a way to avoid blame. Again, sadly, I feel like such a check-in talk would devolve into a vicious attack from him. My gut tells me to be prepared for ugliness. [/quote]
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