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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like, from your perspective, a long-term committed relationship involves living together. What is his perspective on a long-term committed relationship? What does that look like to him, say, ten years in? If it looks like "dating" to him, that sounds like it is very incompatible with what you want, and you won't be happy with him long term. But maybe it *does* look like living together, but he feels like he needs more time to be sure about *you*. That's fine, but I think it's important that he articulates that. And yes, I'd figure this out before you introduce kids. If you are both shooting toward the same place but are still figuring out exactly what the timeline of commitment might look like, that's one thing. But if you really have incompatible directions, then maybe you are not the right folks for each other.[/quote]
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