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[quote=Anonymous]Hello,

I think my title is vague but I’ll explain.
I have been seeing someone for 6 months. I have an elementary school age kid and I am divorced. He has never had a real committed, relationship and has clearly expressed he now wants one with me. He’s told me he loves me and most things about him are great. We have chemistry, and have a whole lot in common. He’s really good to me, always cooks for me, gives me wonderful advice. He’s also super open to meeting my child and we’re talking about doing that next month. Lately, I have been asking him what are his goals in the long term. I asked if things continued to be great between us, would he want to live together in a year or so.  I explained that after a couple of years of dating someone, I’d want/ expect to live together. He didn’t seem to like the idea. He went on talking about examples he’s heard from friends or clients who think cohabitation is a bad idea, etc... the whole convo was a bummer. He can be pretty pessimistic, so I am not surprised that was his response. 
I said that after a couple of years, I don’t see myself continuing with packing bags, driving to his place, as I do now and doing sleepovers
I have been thinking about this and wonder if that is a deal breaker. Would that be for you? Should I hold off on having him meet my child?
Thank you for your advice! [/quote]

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