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Reply to "Things my husband has blamed me for in the last week."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this something you all have done before? If your husband wants you to change something about yourselves, he keeps a running tally on the fridge and you have found that helpful? Personally I would find that so odd and uncomfortable if my spouse kept a running tally on a fridge of areas he wanted me to change.[/quote] Generally I’d agree with you, like if it was something minor. But something rude and hurtful, like false accusations to cover his own mistakes? Attention needs to be drawn to the topic. I don’t think tallies are the best way to go about it, but I’m guessing he has no idea how often he’s actually doing it. He probably writes off the small ones like not flushing and doesn’t count them, so he thinks he’s doing it once a week instead of daily (or whatever the frequency is for OP).[/quote]
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