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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have spoken with my husband on multiple occasions how it is not ok to immediately blame me for *anything* that goes wrong in the house. He says he will resolve his behavior and then does nothing to fix it. In the past week he has blamed me for:

Forgetting to flush the toilet, when in fact he shortly realized afterwards he was the last one to use the toilet as I was in the shower, upstairs.
Leaving his own keys in his pocket and making a racket in the dryer. I reminded him that he needs to empty his pockets before he puts his pants in the dirty laundry bin.
The garage door suddenly opening when he had in fact, sat on the remote garage door opener.
I cleaned his bathroom drawers and he blamed me for his missing retainer, after I found it in a basket and he realized he had moved it earlier that morning.

When I ask him, he either apologizes or tries to continue to deflect his behavior. He has admitted it's easier for him to blame me than to admit his own faults, which i've told him is NOT ok. I've started a running tally on the fridge and tell him when he gets to 10, I get a week off from taking the blame.

We have been in marriage counselling before and I'm seriously considering going back to a marriage counsellor to address it. He is otherwise a very kind person, but my god he will fly off the handle at the most benign issue and immediately blame me for his own faults![/quote]

Shut your pie-hole.[/quote]

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