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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry OP. Her life isn’t perfect since she’s getting her kicks putting you down. Something is missing for her to treat you this way. Or, she grew up resenting you and now she feels that she has the upper hand.

There’s good advice above. If you want to maintain your relationship with her you’re going to need to either laugh it off or call her out on it. Good luck whichever you choose.[/quote]

She did grow up resenting me and I know a part of her is deeply satisfied that she gets the “better” life. But I know she loves me so I don’t think she’s being mean deliberately.
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A lot of siblings grow up resenting each other but usually people mature in adulthood and are able to move past it. I’ve posted before that I was extremely jealous of my cousins, who grew up wealthy, with a SAHM and endless friends and trips etc. I wasn’t very nice to them. Now, as an adult, I haven’t apologized per se but I have made so many gestures to show that i know what a brat I was. Humility and kindness has gone a long way and I have a great relationship with my extended family.

She sounds incredibly immature and I’m sad to say that she needs a reality check. Siblings are such an important relationship and you are lucky to have each other. For her to beat you down like that is really terrible.[/quote]

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