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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She did grow up resenting me and I know a part of her is deeply satisfied that she gets the “better” life. But I know she loves me so I don’t think she’s being mean deliberately.
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Older than you, still going to therapy about siblings. Both things can be true. She loves you AND she's being mean deliberately. Or, she's not being mean deliberately but she is still inflicting damage and you need to let her know how she's making you feel. If she already knows how she's making you feel (which is entirely possible) and/or won't stop making you feel bad, set boundaries. Like PP above who suggested you take a break from her social media. And, if at all possible, try not to stoop to her level. She makes you feel badly with her comments, you know it, you know she loves you, don't snipe back at her, just try to communicate how she's making you feel & move on.

Finally, good for you for being fiscally responsible! This is such a good call and you will lead a much better, happier, fiscally responsible life as a result, regardless of how many mani pedis your sister gets that you cannot have.[/quote]

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