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[quote=Anonymous]38 DINK wife here, my DH is younger, but likes to go out once a week in similar fashion. I don’t; I’m more introverted, like to get a good night’s sleep, and get up for the gym early on weekends. Why would you make him come home if he isn’t up to anything nefarious? One reason we don’t want kids is because we like our lives as they are and part of that is less responsibility. I’m not going to make DH come home “just because he has a wife at home.” If I have no reason to think he’s doing anything other than just drinking with the guys, I want him to have fun. No need for him to come home just to go to bed when he doesn’t feel like it. Enjoy the alone time to yourself or get your own hobby. You sound codependent and boring. My DH takes an Uber when he goes out so I know he’s not endangering himself or anyone else, he spends a reasonable amount of money, and then he doesn’t bust my balls when I want to do something myself. I truly don’t understand the big deal here. [/quote]
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