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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I are 30 year old DINkS.

He works long hours and comes home every night at 20-10:30 pm. After a quick chat we promptly go to bed as I have work and he unwinds on his laptop for an hour or so after. The only time I hangout with him are on weekends and he spends most of Saturday exhausted from the week the sleeping in.

During the week he’ll have impromptu boys night out with a guy friend / coworker or two. I will have no previous heads up. He will text me at 6 pm and say “ btw I’m getting drinks with Jon. Will be home in an hour so so. “ of course he doesn’t stumble in drunk until well after midnight or 2 am.

This occurs either every week or once every two weeks. Either Friday nights or a random evening.

I know he is not out with girls or doing anything nefarious. He is with his guy friends getting drunk and shooting shit.

It bothers me that he’s married and he chooses to spend his time at bars getting drunk than coming home to his wife.
I also seems very rude that I’m up waiting for him while he’s out bar hoping.

I have told him this and he loses his temper. He says he doesn’t want me to put him in a cage. He works hard he spends all his time with me and I can’t take away his occasional boys nights.

Am I being unreasonable? [/quote]

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