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[quote=Anonymous]We're in the be content with an only child group.  I got pregnant on the first try with my son, and had a super easy pregnancy and delivery.  Started TTC #2 when he was 10 months old.  He is now 6 and I've never been pregnant again.  Was told I have unexplained secondary infertility.  IUIs, IVFs, and surgery all failed.  All tests normal for me and my hubs.  I am nowhere near menopause and have textbook perfect cycles.  I eat mainly organic, exercise, and live a clean and healthy lifestyle.

We are still TTC but on our own.  However I have zero hope that I will ever be pregnant again at this point.  It has been an extremely frustrating journey, but we have decided not to pursue any more infertility treatments, donor egg, or adoption.  I am trying to focus on all the benefits of being OAD.  With my son being 6 already, I am starting to feel too old to be pregnant again.

One of the many benefits of being OAD is that it really lets all 3 of us live our best lives.  My son can do tons of activities, my husband can really focus at work and do lots of extra trainings and pursue his hobbies, and I have gone back to work full-time at a career that I love.  We do a lot of traveling and all 3 of us are pursuing our hobbies and interests outside of school/work.  I am well-rested all the time, and have time to focus on exercise, eating healthy, and self care.  I don't think I'd be able to do any of these things if I had more than one child, so instead of being down in the dumps all the time about it, I'm trying to focus on all the benefits.  [/quote]

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