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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]TBH I kind of resent my DH too.  He is working hard getting things done at home, but I would dearly love a paid vacation in which I get things done at home.  [/quote]

Not OP. Why on earth would you RESENT your spouse for something like this? I mean I get being jealous, or wishing it was you, but why be mad at them for something they have no control over? [/quote]

I think because he is doing projects that are more important to him than to me,[b] not picking up any of my usual chores to share the break[/b], and then in the evenings he wants me to make decisions and help him with project things, but I am tired from working all day.[/quote]

This would irritate me. Can you articulate that? Or, at least, articulate your last point - about not wanting to engage in project work since you've been working? My DH is furloughed, and while he still has to work about 8 hours a day anyway (from home), he picking up chores where he can to lighten my load - driving the kids, running errands, finishing house projects. [/quote]

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