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[quote=Anonymous]OP I think it depends what you mean by “treating you terribly”. In my case, if for whatever reason We are not having sex, DH is just not as nice, loving, patient, etc. he is not mean and does not mistreat me, but not great. This does not happen when I am sick or recovering from childbirth, but I think subconsciously he feels that unless there is a very good reason, I can’t say no for a long time (or better I can, but he will resent me). 
Sometimes I have sex for him (probably 50% of the time), but I end up always enjoying it. Also, I find that the more sex we have, the more sex we want to have and the more loving and intimate we are as a couple. We probably have sex 3 times a week (though I am 34 weeks pregnant now with my third and I think we are down to twice a week... almost positions are uncomfortable and my belly is huge).
All of this to say that if he is a nice man that’s needs a little more loving from you in order to show you more love, then try to have sex... just do it. If he is horrible to you independently, maybe you should get a divorce.[/quote]

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