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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Desire is not only physical but mental. If your husband is fairly awful to you during the day, it's hard to want to sleep with him at night. I think counseling is probably necessary, but if you want to tackle this on your own I would really praise him whenever he does something kind and completely ignore him when he is terrible.

I find most immature, bullying men act that way because they want a response like a child having a temper tantrum, and if you simply look at him with disdain/pity and walk away, hopefully he'll realize you won't take the bait. You can hope his behavior improves so you can start to see him like a real attractive man versus the other child you're forced to care for just without the same amount of love that you feel for your actual children. [/quote]

Thank you. Yes, I do ignore his poor behavior 98% of the time. But those times that I do have a voice and stand up for myself, I pay for it. He's verbally and financially abusive, unfortunately. [/quote]

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