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[quote=Anonymous]They have you take a pre-workshop relationship status test, and then give you the results at the workshop. It ranks in color all the areas of volatility in the relationship along with explanations of what different levels indicate and accounts for various responses between genders. It makes it seem like the all and end all of your relationship. Our results said we shouldn’t even get married because we were too incompatible. As you might imagine, this is not how we felt and we felt that there had to be a flaw in the administration or scaling of the quiz. We did get married, and have a really healthy loving and wonderful marriage. All that being said, in trying to be honest about where we are and self-growth and relationship growth we are human and have room for improvement. Yet imagining trying something similar or counseling or whatever now just feels like it will set a bomb off again in our relationship.[/quote]
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