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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well if she cares about what a known troublemaker says then you need to address ways to make her more resilient. In the meantime, teach her to roll her eyes at him and say, “Yeah Yeah - whatever boosts your low self esteem. We see right through your comments.” [/quote] This is the definition of victim blaming. You're an idiot. [/quote] no,this is not victim blaming. As this kid goes through life lots of people will be "mean" to her. She has to learn how to deal with them or she will be a basket case. She needs to learn to remain neutral and either ignore or say a simple, cool, whatever, thanks for letting me know etc. She needs to understand that miserable people like to make those around them feel miserable. It takes time but it is an important skill to develop.[/quote]
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