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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is why I can't stand it when people ask people struggling with infertility "Why don't you just adopt?" It's not easy, it's not cheap, and it's as heartbreaking, if not more so, than dealing with infertility. [/quote] OP here. Yes our adoption journey has cost more money and been harder emotionally I think too. Our infertility and stillborn journey was MY BODY, OUR DECISIONS, me and DH controlling each move. Adoption is just the opposite. Its someone else body, someone else calls all the shots, and you pay for 2 families not 1. I am in awe of all parties in adoption and am not bitter about the time, money, or any of that but its a very ignorant statement. The worst was "there are so many babies who need good homes." Its like yes, yes I know but they are extremely hard to access. I can't just sign up and pay and get one. Which is what I feel some people think.[/quote]
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