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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IF 1/3 of your friends are having twins, rest assured that they are having infertility problems too. Keep trying and get the testing done. Hopefully your second will arrive quickly. [/quote]

That's what I was thinking as well. And for those women, if those are their first pregnancies, they could've felt the same envy about you when you were pregnant with your first child. I don't say this to guilt trip you, OP. We were on the secondary infertility train for a few years, with a second trimester loss, two first trimester losses, and a few failed rounds of IVF to show for it (every pregnancy was the result of IVF, and we cycled mostly in NYC, so factor in that money and travel expense as well). We didn't give up, and we eventually had our second.

You do have control, insofar as your finances and parameters of your life allow. Do the research and seek a more aggressive treatment/approach. Consider making more drastic lifestyle changes. If you're not wanting to do those things/can't do those things, try to find peace with the living child that you do have. Best of luck to you.[/quote]

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