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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Option 3.

Can you split up in the home for a month, while you get the house ready to list in February for the spring market?

If you can’t split up in the home, can you nest in an extended stay-type hotel? Someone stay with a friend or local relative?[/quote]

Yes, this is my thought. [b]I feel like he doesn't want the publicity (for lack of a better word) of the sale. [/b]If we nest it seems less obvious to neighbors or whatever with us coming and going. I'm inclined to prepare for sale. I'd be sad to leave our home but it feels like the cleanest break. Asking for opinions because honestly I know this will be tough on the kids in general but I'm not sure if remaining in the house makes it any easier.[/quote]

Why is this your problem, OP? If he's insisting on leaving you, he can deal with the consequences. If he doesn't want the publicity, maybe he should reconsider walking out.[/quote]

Not my problem at all. Just thinking why he would be so insistent on the highest cost option. I am asking this question because I am wondering if there is truly an benefit from people's experiences on keeping children in the family home. Obviously its not an option for everyone and the kids will land on their feet. More just gathering information.[/quote]

I think doing what is best financially if this is not a long term separation.  Having parents come in/out doesn't seem that stable to me.  Each parent having a home where the kids have beds, dressers, and stuff seems to be a better option.  Better to make a new normal now than disrupt it later with other partners, etc.[/quote]

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