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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am over it with my STBXW.  We have been separated physically for 8 months now.  The custodial is clear on the do's and do not's.  However, my STBXW is now bringing her former AP/Boyfriend to her house and the kids are calling me to say they feel scared around him.  I tried to address it with my STBXW but she says they kids are find and we have 50/50 custody so you have no say on who I bring over my house.  Is it wrong to tell my kids that if at any time you feel that way, call me and I will pick you up.  We live close by so the kids can walk to my house.  Before I get lawyers involved or the police to make sure my kids are ok, any guidance would be helpful.  I know there is still a transition time for the kids to adapt to two homes but I know my oldest who is 14 is very clear he does not want anything to do with the person my STBXW brought over.  I tried talking to him and even took him to see a therapist and he still does not want to discuss. As to my two youngest boys (5/8), they are doing better but they keep saying a stranger spends a lot of time at the house.  I just need to make sure all my kids feel secure when they are not with me.   [/quote]

Dude. Your excessive postings on here indicate that you are FAR from “over it.”  You need to focus on rebuilding yourself and having a healthy relationship with your kids. Give the bullshit a rest. 
Look I’m sorry that you have been hurt but you have to man up and grow up. If your kids are in danger they should call 911. What is the purpose of creating all of this drama? [/quote]

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