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[quote=Anonymous]Ask your lawyer but I think she’s right that there’s nothing you can do about who she has in her house on her time. It might not be good for the kids, but sadly she can let any boyfriends meet them if she chooses.

You can’t go pick up the kids during her time without her permission.

The kids need to talk to their mom. It might not help, but it’ll mean more coming from them than from you. When they complain, you can tell them that you’re there to listen anytime, but their mom gets them half the time and she’s in charge during that time. You don’t get to set the rules or the guest list during that time, so they need to discuss problems with her directly as well.

What are they afraid of? If they just don’t like the guy, and you’re making a big deal about it, you may be feeding their anxiety. Be careful about that. As painful as it is, encouraging harmony is better for the kids, unless the guy is abusive in some way.

It sucks when parents intentionally choose not to put their kids’ best interests at heart, but it’s also bad when it’s done unintentionally.  [/quote]

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